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Originally Posted by greekone87
So I joined a South Asian Fraternity in my sophomore spring semester. When I joined, the guys were pretty cool (it was still run by the founding fathers who were mostly seniors) and the alpha class was an okay group of guys followed by the betas- my pledge class...most of whom might not be your typical frat guys, but they were pretty chill aside from two or three complete social misfits.
Now, I don't want to sound superficial in this post...but whether you like it or not reputation is part of a fraternity and determines whether it will survive.
Lately, all we've been getting is entire classes of fobs and nerds. When I say fob, I'm not saying they don't know how to dress- I'm talking about accent like Apu's from the Simpson's. I have no problem with these guys. They're all really nice and I'm sure they'd have my back. However, I can't see myself going to the bar with these guys and picking up girls.
The past two classes we've had have turned out like this, and now it's just overwhelming. We now have about sixty percent of our chapter dominated by fobs and as bad as I feel saying it, it's kind of killing my motivation of being in the fraternity as well as a lot of the older brothers' because our image right now is the fat/fob/nerdy fraternity. How do I wear letters and still be proud even if I didn't care what anybody thought? Stereotypes have a certain truth to them and these stereotypes are mainly true about our brothers. I grew up in the states so I'm not as cultural as these guys and I have a huge mix of friends from all different backgrounds- but they're all very Americanized unlike a lot of my brothers in the fraternity.
I was Rush Pub this semester and attempted a repositioning. But I used the COB method which just caused our fobs to bring more fob friends in. How do I reposition the fraternity or do I just forget about it and send my superficial ass home?
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Originally Posted by When Doves Cry
well that sucks
i cant answer your question
but i can sort of relate
fobs annoy me. a lot!
they make other asians look bad and prove that the stereotypes are true.
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Here's a thought, you could quit calling these guys 'FOBS' and find out what they have to offer. You say they're nice guys and they'd have your back...so why can't you have theirs?
If you can't look past the superficiality and only want guys who look like they can help you pick up girls, then yes, I'd just forget about it and take your superficial ass home.
And just in case the rest of GC doesn't know what FOB stands for. FOB = Fresh Off The Boat, usually used to describe immigrants from Asia.