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First off your getting yourself into trouble calling her a pnm. She is not interested in joining a sorority so she is not a pnm. Second I know you are trying to be nice but sometimes being blunt is the only way people understand things. Next time she comes to an event pull her outside, so it doesnt create a scene with the pnms that really did show up for rush and tell her that you are sorry, but recruitment parties are for ladies interested in joining the sorority only. Tell her that your sisters would be more than glad to hang out with her this is just not the time or the place to do it.
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