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					Originally Posted by  violetpretty
					 
				 
				WHAT? How can that be???   So if I am a PNM interested in ADPi, I have to go through recruitment, attend all my parties, sign a pref card and pray that I don't match anywhere (because I "can't withdraw") so I can be eligible to look at the colony? And if I am a student that just wasn't interested in sororities (thus didn't sign up for recruitment) until I saw my friends going through recruitment, I am also not eligible to check out ADPi after FMR is done? I don't see how that is possible! I understand that the Panhellenic Association would  encourage PNMs to first try to find their fit in an existing chapter, but I don't see how they could prohibit women from dropping out and then checking out ADPi.  
			
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 Let's take this another step:  what if a woman is a double or triple legacy - or even a relative of a Founder, and that's even why ADPi wanted to colonize.  Does that woman have to completely go through recruitment, hope not to be given a bid, then go through at the interview?  Because frankly, I don't care 
which sorority would be colonizing - that would really be self-defeating.