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Originally Posted by GrekAspirations
Ok here is my question... Say you where interested in XYZ fraternity and have attended all of their functions (charity, fundraisers, etc)... you have done your due diligence and know practically all the info. about the org. that has been made available...Now you have expressed your interest to a few members that you know, but you havent had the opportunity to meet a member that you know held a rank in the org. i.e. KRS/KOP and also apart of the graduate advisor committee.. Additionally (You have met others with similar ranks). So you find out he work at you school and decide to pay a visit... Once in his office he ask " Why are you here?".. so you explain the reason for your visit and he give you the cold shoulder and replys "Have a nice day."... How should one take that response... I mean its not going to deter me from continuing toward my goal, but could this decision to visit this individual prevent or harm my chances of becoming a member?   |
You just showed up at his place of employment unannounced? If so, that was in bad form. You may want to try setting an appointment next time.