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Originally Posted by gee_ess
But, at the risk of being argumentative, and for the sake of further discussion, I don't see what is so restricted about this info. Don't we all gather info - recs, letters, etc in basically the same manner? I am not inquiring about ritual, just trying to improve technique.
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Groups vary a lot in what they consider secret and ritual.
And, for the sake of the topic - I think it's okay to pair up Patty "Piccolo" PNM with Suzy "Saxaphone" Sister, but I think after the fact they have that one thing in common, the rest of the convo should be impromptu. I would be a little creeped out if someone memorized that I'm in the marching band, a basketball cheerleader, was student government president in highschool, and ran a marathon last weekend. Even though that info was probably on recs or rush forms, it would still feel a bit stalker-ish. And yes, I have heard of chapters who do this.