As far as the chapters at my college, it's about half and half. There were a few chapters who lived up to my expectations, for better or for worse. Of course, as I got to know women in the other sororities on campus, some definitely impressed me more than their reputation would have let me believe when I rushed. There were a few chapters which I wish I had been more open minded about. I don't regret going AXiD, becuase I am now an advisor for a collegiate chapter and love it, but I do wonder how things would have been if i gave XYZ the benefit of the doubt instead of succumbing to the stereotype like the naive freshman that I was. My personality has changed a lot though, over the years - I'm much more secure with myself and much more outspoken than I was way back then, so I'm sure that has something to do with my changed perception as well.
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