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Thanks to all who have commented. I especially appreciate the PM's with specifics regarding your chapter's procedures on this topic.
We do already utilize "assigning" girls to pnm's. Usually this has been determined by different factors - Hometown girl picks up hometown pnm, roommate of active who is dying for pnm picks her up to support roommate, etc. I just feel like the idea of matching girls up with someone can be positive. And, to clarify, I intend (at the very least) that by using this process, we make sure that the active has knowledge of what the pnm has achieved/been involved in, etc. so they can have a more meaningful conversation other than "Wow, isn't it hot outside? How is the dorm? What do you think of college so far?" They don't have to have identical circumstances, but I think a pnm likes to feel as if the girl rushing her "knows" her.
In a 15 minute party, ( and on a 14 party day) it is often difficult to have a good conversation with each girl. I think this will help. I just need help figuring out how those who do it well, do it.
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