Thank you for your reply. I REALLY appreciate your comment and if I have offened anyone I truly appologize. I think my post is a little misleading, so let me offer clarification. I'm really not worried about how others preceive me, that has never been an issue with me at all. Your going to have haters where ever you go and if I stood around worrying about them and what they say you would go crazy. I'm basically asking does anyone see this a being an issue when dealing with other members that pledged during undergrad. That's all. And I really posted it on finer woman to see what others, who don't write on these messageboards have experienced. But like I said if I was out of order, I apologize. But the only way someone can steal your joy is if you give it to them. And my joy is not predicated on the actions of the world but on my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Thanks again for writing me back.