[SWTXBelle]

I know that in Texas some high schools are practically feeders to certain chapters. It's tough for small private schools, like the one at which I taught in Houston.
I am so sorry your daughter got caught up in the cut-throat nature of rush at UGA - I'd love to hear that she found a home in a sorority there, but it sounds like she has a great attitude even if she doesn't.
And I'm with you as far as treatment of legacies - I'm always astounded when chapters seemingly fail to consider it. I have known of legacies being dropped for just the reason you state - it was assumed they would pledge their legacy house, when in fact they were not interested in it.