Well, he called last night and we talked and I went over there. We didn't argue and were actually rational. He mentioned that I hadn't called him and I said that was because he told me not to.He went over what he was going to work on to better
communicate with me what he is feeling and wanting so that I don't get confused and I don't have to read his mind. He asked me what I needed from him and I told him. The best thing is that I think for the first time (in an argument) we truly listed to what the other person was saying, wanting, and
needing. I didn't leave feeling like I had to say "talk to you (insert day here)" or see you (insert day here).
I put the necklace back on (huge relief since I kept reaching for it) and even though I got home late, was able to sleep.
Thank you to everyone who was listening and offering advice. I totally appreciate it!
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