Tyra had an excellent show on this that I caught on Oxygen yesterday.

It spoke to this thread excellently.
While I despise "social experiments" done by talk shows, this one was interesting enough to spark dialogue.
This very sexy Asian man (not "starang21 sexy" but close) on the experiment panel made a point to announce that not all Asian men are nerds with small penises. The fact that he felt the NEED to announce that is crazy, but oh well. Toward the end, the panelists had to choose panelists to ask to be their fake life partners. All the women declined the Asian man's offer of life partnership because he's Asian.