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I think that as you date (and hopefully learn from the people that you have dated) your standards would adjust to something realistic. When I was younger, my standards were very high as I got older and wiser, I learned that I had to adjust because some of what I wanted and what I needed didn't mesh and I had to learn to find someone that eventually met more of what I NEEDED than what I wanted. Part of the problem of us setting standards is it's based on what you WANT and sometimes we place unnecessary wants above needs and feel a bit emptier because when we get what we 'want' after a while, you sometimes can feel a little more empty. Yes there are still certain non negotiables that we want (income, kids, location etc.) that we may stick to but at what cost?
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