Ok, this one is nuts, and I don't know if it'll make sense. Have the NMs line up with empty champagne (sparkling cider) glasses. Their bigs can decorate each one with the NMs name (paint pens!). Then all of the bigs take turns filling the glasses up with a little sparkling cider. The other chapter members can sing while they're doing it. When the big gets to her real little, she overflows the glass. So yeah, you find out who your big is when you have cider on your toes! It was crazy when we did it!
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