When I attended rush, it was the first rush in over a decade. The chapter had been suspended back in '95 for only God knows what! Anyways, at the rush, all the interested young ladies were introducing themselves, getting to know the members, asking questions, etc. When it became my turn, I asked: (and I kid you not)
"What did you guys do to get the chapter suspended for so long!?!"
I then proceeded to say,
"I mean, I've heard several appalling rumors about it, but which ones are true?"
I could've kept going, but lucky for me, another interest pinched me, hard. Of course, I then winced and yelped, "OUCH!"
Good thing the members found humor in it, they now call me "SOROR 'speak now, think later.'"
They did however, (much, much later) give me my answer and said: "Everyone wants to know anyways, good for you for being bold enough to ask!"
I was also advised to learn how to hold my tongue.
