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One COB night that was pretty successful was a "Dessert Night" with all sorts of desserts that each of the members made. I could see a variation of "Fondue Night" being fun, also... with all sorts of things like fruit, marshmallows and cheesecake to dip.

An event with lots of food is always a good idea -- chili or pasta is economical.

Mainly, think about everything through a PNMs eyes. Ask yourself if someone who didn't know you all that well would think doing X with a group was weird? Fun? A little scary?

I personally think that the least intimidating events are the best -- the kind of "events" that would be pretty normal for non-greek women to do with their friends anyway. Watching movies, a popular TV show, going bowling, having dinner... these are all things people like to do with their friends anyway, so half of the battle that PNMs go through in trying to decide to come has already been won!

Good luck! Please come back with updates!