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I can understand where you are coming from when you say that you felt like you have been led on, but coming from a sister that has been on the voting side I would like to say things aren't as cut & clear as you'd like to think. I've seen some of my sisters fight hard for certian pnms they loved while other sister couldn't care less for them. It sounds to me that this girl really liked you since she was paired up with you twice.
Also, I don't know how your other pref party went, but if you were really sold on house abc, then maybe you didn't put your best foot forward at xyz for some reason and you got lost in the crowd of other pnms going to that house.
I think it's important for PNMs to realize that its not just about being a nice girl and fitting in with the organization. Sometimes you have to make yourself stand out in a good way, so when sisters got to vote they say "Oh Yeah... I remember Jane Doe I really like her." In colleges with humongous(sp) amounts of PNMs going through you can be forgotten just like that. I went to a school with a smaller greek system and I still had trouble remembering all the girls... I would only remember the girls that really seperated themselves.
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