Honestly, thanks for sharing. Your story shows alot of the most important things we TRY to tell PNMs:
*Being a legacy doesn't guarantee you a bid to your legacy chapter.
*Having the minimum GPA to participate in recruitment isn't always going to get you very far, since that GPA is often lower than the individual sorority GPA requirements.
*At the end of the day, there just aren't any guarantees with recruitment in general. You could have good conversations with girls everyday, you could look very put together every day, and you could follow every piece of advice you get. Sometimes (for whatever reasons), girls just don't get invited to join a chapter. Is it painful for PNMs? I'm sure it is, but every sorority has their reasons and is entitled to make those decisions.
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 01-30-2008 at 11:14 PM.
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