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I have to disagree.
Sexual compatibility is not a foregone conclusion just because you love someone.
But, assuming you've fooled around enough--made out, groped, etc-- you can figure out whether you are or not ... only once in a rare while does hot hot hot chemistry in foreplay NOT equal compatibility, but it DOES happen-- ruined a relationship for me--everything was SO GREAT-- good friends, lots of laughs, great fooling around, but seriously PATHETIC sex. And sex is very important.
H2oot -- I think abstaining for awhile is a nice idea!!! I have friends that did that, and then on wedding night were too tired and drunk to have sex and then got on a plane to Virgin Gourda the next morning, so first time they had sex in three months was on a beautiful island in the Caribbean-- my friend was so happy she abstained--it made it even more special.
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