of course it happens on a thread that I post...haha...well Mo, I appriciate your advice....here's a proposed question...I know we're going out with his friends afterwards...(I think a friend of mine will be meeting us out also, so it won't be as scary

but what to order to drink..defnitely don't want to look like a drunk but dont want to be stuck up and not order anything, I don't have a preference over beer or liquor, but maybe depends on where they are going and what everyone orders is my plan...I know i'm looking into this waaaaay too much, just want it to go really well, esp since time spent with him is so limited.