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Originally Posted by AOII Angel
I have to say I completely agree with you there, OTW! I can't believe how PSYCHO people can be on this site...the recent case of an outing was unfortunate and unfair considering the girl was no more judgemental than I'm sure 98% of the other PNMs are! I would definitely be hesitent to post anything until after the fact given the history of this site!!
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I just want to point out that as far as that "outing" was concerned, it was done by someone in their FIRST post...NOT a longtime GC member. It was shitty, no doubt, but blaming it on people who post frequently on GC isn't fair.
As far as fantASTic's post, I don't see where she said anyone was or wasn't "worthy" - just that they might not be a good fit for Greek life and they shouldn't be told they'd be a great asset when they should really stop trying. Maybe rush parties are short, but once someone goes through formal twice and cob 3 times...I would say the chapter's had time enough to get to know her. Those are the people fantASTic is talking about. It's like they think they can "wear them down" - that the sorority will get so tired of seeing them at rush parties that they'll say "oh whatever, let's give her a bid."
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