Originally Posted by AOII Angel

In what way does "XYZ doesn't know what they're missing" give PNMs false hope. Do PNMs somehow think that GC members will get a vote at recruitment? I think it is completely reasonable to tell a PNM (even if you've only met her online) that she would make a great member even if the blind girls at her school don't see it. It's a personal opinion that I'm sure a PNM won't confuse with the thoughts of another sorority at another campus. There are some people who need pep talks along the way. I'm not one of them, but my bio sister called home crying after signing her bid card. While I thought she was silly, who am I to tell her that her feelings are not valid. One positive word can make the difference to a hurting girl who isn't sure what to do. If Soliloquy wants to give it another try, more power to her. She WOULD make a great asset. That does not mean she will actually get a bid, but she definitely never would if she didn't try.