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Question I forgot to ask
I am hoping the GC crew can answer this question:
Is it standard for a Sr. affiliated member to "friend" rushees on FACEBOOK? Evidently 3-4 girls at my daughter's school are doing this during rush, with one girl friending 10-15 girls the day after the 1st recruitment events. This has caused quite a stir among the freshman girls who are busy interpreting what it means or doesn't mean. To me, this seems a bit wrong. This "mutual selection" process seems to be inherently stressful enough w/o someone adding this dimension.
In case you are wondering, my daughter was not "friended" and it honestly does not seem to bother her. I think that may be because it is not a house that she feels like she will become affiliated with. It bothers me though, well--just because it seems so wrong.
Am I missing the boat?
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