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Originally Posted by TSteven
Then with all due respect, your brother's "views" will - and should be - "best" for the chapter (as a whole).
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I disagree. Especially when it comes to being superficial sometimes a kind of "mob mentality" takes over. It's up to the clear-headed ones to knock some sense into people.
To the OP, I think it's great that you're letting your thoughts on the matter be known. Keep doing that. Stand your ground and there's got to be some other brothers who feel the same way and will respect your standards. You might be able to build a power-base from there.
If not, at least you know which brothers share your values. You might not be able to turn the chapter around (who knows?) but you'll know who to hang out with.
Good luck!