[violetpretty]

That's actually a pretty common answer/sentiment of many women who join sororities. I wouldn't worry about it. Continue to be yourself.

ETA: When I asked one PNM that question she answered me with, "Well when I go to Bentley's (a bar in College Park) I always see groups of girls with their sorority sisters and I want to be like them!" The answer you get can be very telling, and I would definitely appreciate your honesty.