[violetpretty]

So many posters have given her solid advice.
We explained the differences between withdrawing and early alumna status. We told her that her the implications of withdrawing.
We told her that her chapter's EC and the seniors do not have the final say in her membership status.
We've told her that it probably won't be much of a fight if she would just make one phone call to an advisor, who most certainly has the power to let her go early alum without paying this semester's dues.
The OP initially wanted to know how to tell her chapter, and stated that she "loves ZTA and still wants to be involved with ZTA" and then a couple of pages/days later her "priorities are changing so much", but someone who ignores such solid advice, without even attempting to call an advisor is a troll in my book.