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Originally Posted by EskimoGirl
i just want to clear up the legacy thing. one of my good friends, who also has legacy at mulan and another sorority, was told that she has a guarantee of getting a bid there. as far as whether or not the two girls i was referring to want to be in mulan, i do know that it is currently their first choice.
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you can tell your friend that she just experienced "Bid Promising" and that is against the rules. please tell her that we ladies who have been around the block more than once have seen too many times when a sorority member promised a bid to a pnm, the pnm believed the girl and suicided that chapter, only to be bidless on bid day. no one member can guarantee that anyone will receive a bid-even if they are the chapter president!
i wanted to say something about jasmine-you noticed that their skit was not on the same level as some of the other chapters. maybe you could use that observation to your advantage. if you are invited back to and choose to attend the next jasmine party, you could diplomatically mention that you enjoy acting and look forward to being able to participate in skits when you join a sorority. you just might be what jasmine is looking for!