1. A strong brotherhood has both pledge classs unity as well as strong big/little relationships. Try to keep one from dominating another. Especially if you just had an unusually big pledge class.
2. Keep track of big/little relationships. If a big hasn't done anything for a month, find out why; maybe you need to make some changes?
3. Many bigs have a steady (pinned, engaged,...) girlfriend. Encourage the bigs to double date with the littles. (You, or the bigs may need to find them dates?)
4. Do you have a mentor program? (Balanced Man, etc.) Involve the big/little relationship with that.
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