[SthrnZeta]

I hate to sound harsh, but if she really loved ZTA as much as she says she does, then she would fight a lot harder to stay in. It's that simple. And I have to also remind her that a sorority is more than just a club you join in college - they stress to you during your whole NM period that this is a lifetime commitment, hence the reason behind Link Week (a time of reflection prior to Initiation) to really heavily consider the commitment you are about to make because it is forever.