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Originally posted by Optimist Prime
what about kissing though? I forget who said it but they said something like it didn't sound healthy to have your first kiss and first srump in the same 24 hours. I agree. How traumatic.
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I agree. That sort of situation sounds far from ideal to me. If you want to wait until after the wedding to kiss and be physical, then fine, but maybe it would be better to just kiss a bit on the wedding night and wait a few months for sex? It sure wouldn't give you much chance to ease into things and get comfortable if you're expected to do it all for the first time in one night (when you're already beyond exhausted from the wedding day and all). I dunno, doing it all in one night just doesn't seem natural to me. Other than one night stands, when non-married people are having a relationship, they usually don't kiss for the first time and have sex for the first time on the same night. At least, most people wouldn't recommend doing that if you want a stable relationship. There is usually a natural progression that takes at least a few weeks (for most people, I guess).