Bid matching doesn't work that way anyway! If she is #1 on ABC's list and she doesn't put ABC first, she will get a bid to ABC before girls lower on ABC's list if she doesn't get a bid to her first choice. Putting ABC 2nd will not drop her to the bottom of the list. ABC's pref list does have some purpose. If they like LilPNM, they'll take her no matter where she puts them on her list and will never know that she didn't rank them first. (If, of course, the DEF girls are too stupid to take her!
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