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Originally Posted by honeychile
If nobody comes close to tears, it's not an effective Pref!
Pref is meant to show every bit of the good times of your sorority. There are a lot of ways of showing it, by reading passages or poems about sisterhood, by having a sister or two tell a (short) reason why she loves her sisters - things like that. Most I've heard of take place in a dark room, with candles, sometimes being lit one by one. You want to show the PNM that you'd like to include her in your sisterhood without scaring her away. It's a very thin line! Good luck!
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About candles: probably a good idea to play it safe and keep your insurance company, fire department and emergency ward happy -- if you use candles, use those fake battery-powered ones. The fancier ones even have various flickering effects, right? Over the years GreekChat has seen more than one story about somebody's hair catching fire. Or the decorations. Or whatever. Some sororities now have national policies or guidelines forbidding real candles. (I'm not kidding.)