[violetpretty]

I was pretty devastated when I was cut from a chapter (XYZ) that I was in love with right before pref, but after joining SK and getting to know the XYZs better in a natural setting, I know I wouldn't have fit in with XYZ.

Strangely, I had deja vu when I was a Rho Gamma last spring visiting their chapter during skit round. It brought up the same feelings I had experienced three years ago, of feeling like I fit just because of how the members treated me and my RG buddy, and how their skit portrayed them as a diverse, hilarious, outgoing group of women. I had to remind myself of how they are outside of recruitment, and how chapters want to have as broad appeal as possible so they have their choice of PNMs.

It really stung when I got cut from XYZ, but I am so glad they did, because I would not have been happy there.

Try to make the most out of your preference parties today. You might see K-Fed as your home, since you seemed to have enjoyed them lately. Have fun today and I hope you make the best decision for you.