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Originally Posted by alum
My daughter went through recruitment this year for the first time as an active. She won't admit to crying but she did say tears welled up during Pref Night.
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If nobody comes close to tears, it's not an effective Pref!
Pref is meant to show every bit of the good times of your sorority. There are a lot of ways of showing it, by reading passages or poems about sisterhood, by having a sister or two tell a (short) reason why she loves her sisters - things like that. Most I've heard of take place in a dark room, with candles, sometimes being lit one by one. You want to show the PNM that you'd like to include her in your sisterhood without scaring her away. It's a very thin line! Good luck!