My first time was kind of sucky. I had just turned 17 and had been dating this guy for six months. We were both virgins so we had no idea of what the hell we were doing. If you are a guy just skip the next couple of lines...I couldn't tell if I hurt from having sex for the first time or because I started my period!! Talk about embarassing! We dated for five more years and I eventually dumped him...he just never got the hang of sex