[ChildoftheHorn]

Hmmm...

I know of a LOT of guys who are gay in fraternities on my campus. Greek life is so big here that it isn't a big deal. None of them are "fairies" because they do seem just like regular guys and you wouldn't know otherwise. The few guys I know have made the decision to never go with guys from their fraternity because they are "brothers" and as one guy said "You just don't mess around with family."

For the most part, the members of the fraternity know when the guys are rushing. The campus here isn't really phobic and most people don't care much. The point is to find people who you can be friends with and will be good to one another. How much does sexuality play into that?