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Originally Posted by Zeta13Girl
Here's another question for those of you that went through informal rush tho... depending on how your campus does it the sorority is allowed to extend you a bid after the first rush event but in some cases if the sorority is having a hard time deciding on you they will invite you back for another night of rush events. Would you attend the second night or no? And if you attended and saw the girls that attended the night before you there as new members (because they had already received and accepted their bid) would this turn you off at all.
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Like I said on the who was your rho chi thread, I personally would want to attend a second night anyway, just to make sure that's where I wanted to be. We gave out lots of open bids, but I don't recall ever giving one to someone who had come to only one open bid party, who didn't know anyone in the sorority previously.
But yeah, I would be turned off if some girls got a bid the first night and others had to "prove" themselves by showing up a second night. What's the reasoning behind this concept - snap them up before another sorority gets them? I mean, it seems like it would be nicer, easier and less of a cluster@#$& to give out all the bids at once.
I pmed you by the way
