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Let me just say for the record, as teh gay, I do not think coming out in a chapter meeting is necessary. It is a lot of drama for nothing. I mean seriously, for all the breeders on the board who think it's a good idea -- for who, you? Nah.... it makes a big deal out of a situation which is really nobody's business to have an opinion on.
What I would do if I was him: I'd talk to brothers one on one until you feel it was adequately "out there." When I was a Sophomore in college and I was slowly but surely coming out in action, I decided it was a good idea to round up those upperclassmen i looked up to and, before they graduated, tell them that I was gay and I hoped it wouldn't change our relationship.
That was about ten people....ten conversations....all positive. They were the ten people who were most important to me. If they told anyone, fine. If they didn't, fine.
Just be out. PM me if you want to discuss further.
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