def tell everyone man.
no offense towards you, but if you can't be up front with them... then you can't expect others to do the same. As someone said before most would probably get the thought in their heads you are trying to get close to guys by joining a fraternity which are historically heterosexual organizations.
Like i said you can't expect someone to make the first move of maturity, you have to tell everyone the truth about you, only through honesty can you really make people understand and hopefully in time accept you for being the person you really are
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