[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

Soror Chaos does keep it real and I like that in a person...
Rev1908 you KNOW I know how this is...and I agree with Texas*princess that it is hard sometimes to cut all ties with someone who you've dealt with for a long time...I don't make resolutions but I decided to go into '08 without the baggage from my on again off again...low and behold guess who texted me this morning...its like I understand just don't answer but I always get caught up in the the what if something is wrong scenario...I know, I know Imma sucka....

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Well he's obviously not stalking you because you let him back in everytime. It seems that you used to enjoy this rollercoaster ride and you've given him the wrong idea. Until now. You now expect him to think it's finally over and to go away as if you've proven yourself anything other than inconsistent in the past.

If you want him out of your life, put him out of your life. Continue to ignore his attempts at contact with no relapses. If he doesn't get the point, change your contact info.

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

Chaos....I like you. Sometimes I read something you write in a D&R thread and I think, "That was harsh", but it is the truth.

Most of the time people have to bump thier heads [a lot] to understand things. However I can attest to cutting off all ties. If you let someone come around even if it is for 10 minutes....they will come and try to press thier luck for more time and more time until they are a fixture in your life again.

I had finally had enough and REFUSED to answer another phone call from the ENEMY (LOL). Yes, I am pissed, angry, upset, and a bunch of other things. However, as long as I allowed him to come around I was going to continue to feel that way. I am still learning, but the sooner the better!!