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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
first make a friend. don't come across as the reason you are inviting her is to get her to join your sorority. after all, you may discover that she can't join your chapter right now(or ever) but you can make a friend, and she might meet someone who could join and she just might talk your chapter up, because you befriended her.
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Yes, yes, YES. I can't stress this strongly enough. Introduce her to your sorority sisters (who just happen to be your friends) in the caf or outside of parties. Like I've said on here before, you want to get to the point where she is comfy enough so that SHE asks YOU how to join. This doesn't happen overnight. You can't talk to someone one night in class and the next night ask her to an open bid party - it's just like in high school where the girls who were the friendliest were often the most desperate for friends.
Does the other sorority have, if not a house, a "home base" (like an apartment or something) where sisters live and can gather? Do you have such a thing? If not, look into it.