Because it's a hazy line to cross and if it makes you uncomfortable, he should respect that. Is she single? Does she know he has a girlfriend? Why don't you know her? Can you meet her? How does he know her and why does he need to speak with her so frequently?
I think most men themselves would admit they have a difficult time seeing most women they like as "just" friends. If they're pulled toward a woman, there's likely to be another level of interest there, even if it just rests in the "curiosity" realm rather than anything long-term. I would also question the intentions of the female, if she knows he is involved with someone.
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