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Originally posted by FuzzieAlum
Conclusion: If you want to save yourself, date other people who want to save themselves.
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ok, i was keeping myself out of these conversations until this ridiculous quote. not to attack you personaly fuzziealum (that is not my point
) but you are WAY OFF BASE and have no basis or right to your claim.
I'll tell you why.
I'm 23. and a virgin. yes i know, very rare. (and i'm sure james, who saw me in action on saturday night is probably shocked out of his mind!) right, james?!
why, you may ask, would a normal 23 year old stay a virgin for so long? you're probably thinking, she must be weird or a religious fanatic (clearly not!) or something else, but that is just not true. the reason is because i have never liked someone to that extent. and ALL, and i mean ALL of my friends who started to have sex in college will now sleep with almost anyone. they don't have to be dating for a long time, or even dating at all. that is just not my style.
am i against sleeping with someone before marriage? no. a resounding no. but until i find someone worthy of me, i will wait. and i'm not waiting for "the one"...far from that! just someone who means a lot to me.
so for you to say that i should only date other men who don't want to sleep with any jane, mary or nicole is ludicrous. i'll date who i want to! and if they aren't mature enough to deal with not sleeping with me right away, then they clearly aren't mature and are definitely not high quality. i'm not going to date only virgins. no one walks around with a virginity sign around their neck so we would know who they are! if someone wants to get married after sleeping with dozens of people in their past, go for it. but to me, sleeping with my husband after having such a colorful past would just be a drop in the bucket. what a waste.
i am fuming right now. some people think they have the right to judge others. i'm not judging anyone on their sexual past, whether it is or is not existant. i judge the quality of the PERSON. period.
don't get on a high horse---when you fall you'll really hurt yourself.
