I agree with 12dn94dst. People have individual perceptions of what being rude is or is not. For many people the decision to talk about BGLO or GLO information is based on the fact that people wish to remain "neutral" until the "time is right." What I mean by this is that most members are aware that they will be having an information, etc. If someone requests information and they tell them to wait or inquire at another time, the person may think it is being rude when in fact, the BGLO member is aware that the person's questions will be answered at a later date (and more appropriately). Additionally, although many of us have been in the same situation, we may have dealt with it differently and feel that others should as well. It is all relative. If I (when an interest in DST) waited until the informational to ask for phone numbers, etc. then I may feel that's what other young ladies should do. It is imperative to understand that some people don't tven show interest (genuinely) they just pump for more and more information. That is bothersome. I say don't be rude but use discretion in giving and asking information.
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