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Ok, I see all of everyone's points and Yes I do agree that it would be more than a hardship to wait until you married to have sex, BUT:
Let's face it, back in the day couples were married at much younger ages and had making a family as #1 prority...that is not so much the case any longer.
In today's dating world, it is a few dates, if not sooner that men expect something to happen. I do not condone this, but I do understand.
I am 23 and most the men I date are at least 25-26 and they are not high school guys that will sit around and wait for the physical side to happen, they want to see if you both have chemistry or not.
Now, that doen't mean I want to run into bed with every man I meet, by far that is not the case. But when and if I met someone I felt was reasonable and that we had future potential then I would consider becoming more serious and no I wouldn't allow myself to pretend I was so virtuous and do everything but sleep with him. I think you either save it or you don't; don't even get me on born agian virgins!
And if I wanted to save it and was 23 and hadn't already given it away, then you bet I wouldn't until the big day; for no other reason that I wouldn't want to go out like a chump.
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