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Originally Posted by MandyPepperidge
What are the circumstances of you de-pledging? Is there any bad blood? Not to be a Debbie Downer, but I've witnessed some situations where a pledge drops a house first semester, re-rushes in the spring only to find out that the initial fraternity has contacted other fraternities to not bid him. Or the second fraternity will contact the previous chapter to "vet" the kid only to receive the same message.
Go to the rush parties and bring your A game. Isn't that how guys get bids?
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not to sound cocky, but i don't doubt my ability to get a bid with the guys i like. Its just how do you see through the facade of what rush week is. you get what i'm saying? like how can you possibly know in a week what the guys are like.
And i know plenty of pledges in different frats, but thats such a small fraction of the population of a fraternity, the guys who are already in the fraternity keep to themselves usually.
not to mention all of my classes are level 100 classes where no brothers would be in them.
And i don't think my old fraternity is gonna black ball me. The brothers all say hey to me whenever i see them and are really friendly and start up conversations with me on how i'm doing, my pledge brothers don't like me though for the most part though. the reason why i left is because my pledge brothers didn't share any of the work load, leaving it to me and another small group who of which some quit with me. The brothers were all awesome but i didn't want to go through with those guys, so unless they are being tooth faced the older guys all still like me bc i was the one washing their clothes lol
