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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Everyone has their own baggage.  We deal with it, accordingly.
Most people are so afraid of being hurt or disappointed. After they've scared all the potentials away and ruined enough relationships, they say "there are no good men/women out here" or "God meant for me to be unmarried (which is possible however it often isn't)." |
This is sooooo true. When I decided that God didn't mean for me to get married, that's when I found my mate (or my mate found me) and it was just around the time that I was really starting to get used to the idea of not getting married. So I truly believe now that when God is ready, he will send you someone just for you. Until that time, live life to the fullest and work on becoming the best you that you can be. You should be a whole and complete person before you marry another whole and complete person anyway so if you have things to work on (and most of us do), maybe this is the reason you are still single.