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Originally Posted by lilly1
would a former counsel member be equally as respectful and confidential?
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Yes! (depending on the person, of course) In general, I'd say that the former council members are the ones who have really matured after experiencing the responsibility of being on council for a year. But like others have said, there is no "right" person to talk to. Yes, there are designated people as far as the sorority heirarchy is concerned but the important thing is to talk to a sister who you respect and feel confortable with. You don't have to be close friends.
If there truly is a small part of you that still wants to see this through, you owe it to yourself to at least give it a try. You don't want to have any "what ifs" later on.
You'd be hard-pressed to find any sorority members on this board who haven't felt a bit of doubt about their membership at one time or another. It's very common so just know that you're not alone and there's nothing horrible about what you're feeling.
Good luck with whatever you choose to do.