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I am also somewhat shy when I first get to know people. So when I went through, I made a huge effort to pretend like I wasn't at all. It was hard at first, and a lot of times I felt so sick of talking. I guess I just pretended that I already knew these girls.
A girl in my rush group really wanted to go Alpha Chi and instead got a bid to a chapter she did not want to be in at all. She declined and is now going to rush again next fall. Since then she has become really good friends with a lot of us, so I think it will be a lot easier for her. I am actually glad, because instead of being my plegde sister, I am hoping she will be my little. So everything does work out for the best.
Good Luck!!
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