Honestly, there are going to be girls who will be your friends, no matter your decision, and there are ones who will turn their backs on you, no matter how "nicely" you drop out.
And be prepared to answer this question: If you can't afford it, why did you join in the first place?
Also, about affording it - most sororities have one-time fees you pay your first semester, and aren't quite as expensive after that. And, if you are just dropping because you're not "feeling" it anymore - there is often a "let down" when you are no longer a pledge who is babied by the rest of the chapter, and are no longer getting the "Star" attention. It will get better when you get more involved with the workings behind your chapter.
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