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Originally posted by justamom
Instead of throwing stones or lashing out at those who would TRY to remain virtuous, we should applaud them and support them in their choice.
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Thank you, I totally agree with this. I'm totally impressed with others who've also decided to wait until marriage. For some reason though, maybe because there is more emphasis or pressure on the guys to have sex, I think i'm more impressed to find out a guy is saving himself. Doesn't seem to happen too often around here! Like I said though, I think everyone is responsible enough to know the choices that are right for *them* and should act accordingly. There's a definite amount of emotional intimacy you miss out on in a relationship by not having sex, so that has been reason for a lot of my friends who've had sex with boyfriends. Oh but I actually only know one girl of my friends from high school who's still a virgin, and probably less than 10 in my sorority....are we a dying breed?!